I had no problems getting images with blurry background with the appropriate prompts. Something like "shallow depth of fields, bokeh, DSLR" can lead to good results. https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/1180506623475720222/1... [0]

But I found that that results in more professional looking images, and not more realistic photos.

Adding something like "selfy, Instagram, low resolution, flash" can lead to a .. worse image that looks more realistic.

[0] I think I did this one with z image turbo on my 4060 ti

The blur isn't correct though. Like the amount of blur is wrong for the distance, zoom amount etc. So the depth of field is really wrong even if it conforms to "subject crisp, background blurred"