There are no helpful representatives is the problem. It doesn't matter who you vote for, because they're all just varying degrees of bad.

There isn't a single politician I could vote for that could improve this situation. Even if there was, they would just get swept away by the ocean of people who actually believe in this "think of the children" narrative.

If that's the case, you need to grow the representatives you want. Many of the people voted into mayor or governor didn't pop up out of the ether. They were working in local boards or as comptrollers or even business owners.

That's why local elections are so important, despite the dreadfully low turnout.