Head of Engineering & Infrastructure | Full-Time | Remote | $182k - $272k USD - https://fetlife.com/jobs/head_of_engineering_and_infrastruct...

Role: Fully own our engineering and infrastructure teams, keep FetLife fast and reliable for over 12 million members, and free the rest of the leadership team to focus on product and growth.

Perks: Paid time off (2 weeks vacation, 5 statutory holidays, 2 weeks at Christmas, 4-day summer workweeks), annual company retreat, anniversary gift ($200/year), monthly music subscription reimbursement, fully paid maternity & paternity leave.

How to Apply: Email jointheteam+hoei+hn@fetlife.com with a brief introduction, tell us about the impact you have personally made on an engineering or infrastructure team you have led, and LinkedIn or resume (PDF).

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FetLife | Senior DevOps Engineer | Full-Time | Remote | 115k - 180k USD - https://fetlife.com/jobs/devops-engineer

Role: Develop and implement infrastructure upgrades, database tuning, Kubernetes and Helm orchestration, monitoring, and security. Help maintain and improve our large-scale Rails monolith, including CI/CD. Participate in on-call rotation and help automate daily DevOps tasks.

Perks: Paid time off (2 weeks vacation, 5 statutory holidays, 2 weeks at Christmas, 4-day summer workweeks), annual company retreat, anniversary gift ($200/year), monthly music subscription reimbursement, fully paid maternity & paternity leave.

How to apply: Email jointheteam+do+hn@fetlife.com with a brief introduction, 2–3 favorite projects, GitHub/GitLab link, and LinkedIn profile or resume (PDF).

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Stack: MySQL/PostgreSQL, ScyllaDB, Redis, ElasticSearch, Terraform, Google Cloud, DataDog and more.

Applications: Rails, Vue.js/Typescript, Rust

About Us: FetLife is the largest kinky social network with 12M+ members, 100% word-of-mouth growth, and billions of daily requests.