I used to salvage components from electronic stuff and was always looking out for 555s but never found any, in a whole range of vintages from 1970's to 2000's. I ended up with the same conclusion - it seemed to be a hobbyist's chip that real consumer products didn't use and felt amateurish for some reason I didn't understand.

The big problem I ran into playing around with 555s was that capacitors are very rarely the capacitance they claim. Unless you're speccing an expensive capacitor, you'll find your time constant varies quite a bit across devices and temperature. That's fine for some use cases, but completely a deal breaker for others.

That's funny because I have two objects on my desk for which I know that they use 555s. One is a no-name joystick with "autofire" function from the late 1980's. The other is a mass produced motor controller from the 2000's where the 555 generates the PWM signal for a FET.