> Lots of closed source commercial libraries provide some .h files and a .so file.

I'm mostly talking about modules for internal implementation, which is likely to be the bulk of the exports. Yes, it's understandable that for dll / so files exporting something for external executables is more complicated also because of ABI compatibility concerns (we use things like extern "C"). So, yes header approach might be justified in this case, but as I stated, such exports are probably a fraction of all exports (if they are needed at all). I'll still prefer modules when it's possible to avoid them.