I'm born Guesser but evolved into an Asker. However, it depended on whether I was the requester or not; if I wanted to invite someone, I would try to avoid putting them in a position where they had to say "no". However, I didn't mind saying "no" myself.

I would argue with other people that it's impolite to put them in such a position as they may not like to decline.

After discussing it openly with friends and family, I realized that it was okay to say no and people wouldn't mind. This changed me into an asker.

What's funny is that my parents were askers. I guess being introverted made me more of a guesser initially.

you may like this thought:

if you have a weak no, then it makes your yes weak.