EU pissed off Russia when Russia invaded Ukraine?

I have read that narrative before, in fact it was just a few days ago when Trump lied that he will be forced to take Greenland because Denmark and Norway is pissing him off by withholding the strategic location of Greenland from him.

Same same.

Maybe we need to be more confrontational to assert our own borders and independence and stop trying to please autocrats and wannabe autocrats?