Can't say about Framework, but between a Macbook and a Dell, that both got a glass of water on them, the Macbook was completely unusable, while the Dell still works (except issues with GPU) 5 years after the incident, after only one day in service for cleaning.

your anecdote doesn't prove or disprove anything.

the most reliable test of durability is prices in the second-hand market. Apple laptops hold their value very well.