| ▲ | LorenPechtel 4 hours ago | |
The basic problem with this is that the ones that are trying too hard are doing so because the standard approach failed. Maybe you get lucky, but it's not a general solution. | ||
| ▲ | nicbou 16 minutes ago | parent [-] | |
What is the standard approach? I find that being genuine and vulnerable and having no hidden agenda works wonders. | ||