I think the way to be successful with C++ is to 1. Pick a sensible subset of the language that you allow in your project, and ban everything else. How much that subset should include is a valid debate and reasonable people can disagree, but I don't know of any successful C++ project that just YOLOs every part of the language into the project. And 2. (related) Pick the earliest possible standard that your team can live with, and don't give in to the temptation of cherry-picking anything from a future standard. For instance, the decision of switching from C++14 to C++17 should be a major debate full of fistfighting.