>99.9% of the people I meet want to be kind and help. You just need to "tune into that frequency."

Jesus.

The only people who say this are white men.

"You just need to "tune into that frequency."" Is especially gross. You were raped and murdered by a stranger? It's your fault for tuning into the rape-and-murder frequency instead of the give-me-stuff frequency. That's what the implication is. Ewww.