> But if you have done the livestyle and know that you can get by without money, you do loose some fear of loosing money.

I disagree. I’ve seen people that used to say “I was unemployed, I don’t fear unemployment”… until they lost the job.

To me is like saying “I will go to see the bear behind bars in the zoo, so that when I see one in the wild I do not fear.”

The people I know that actually were poor fear poverty the most. That guy never ever had such a fear. He even never ever studied or worked, because liked living from others, until he went back to the parents.

I mean, it depends of course. Especially now that I have children, who depend on me. I do know, even with kids you can hitchhike, do work exchange, etc. but it is a whole different story than doing it on my own, so I would never claim I transcended above existential fears regarding money. But I do believe my base attitude is way more relaxed to always find a way somehow and that helps me a lot to not get a heart attack considering all the stress I do have to face.

About others I don't know I won't judge, but surely quite some like living in a illusion, no doubt about it.