So here's an example of SO toxicity. I asked on Meta: "Am I allowed to delete my comments?" question body: "The guidelines say comments are ephemeral and can be deleted at any time, but I was banned for a month for deleting my comments. Is deleting comments allowed?"

For asking this question (after the month ban expired) I was banned from Meta for a year. Would you like to explain how that's not toxic?

Maybe if you haven't used the site since 2020 you vastly underestimated the degree to which it enshittified since then?