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soared 3 days ago

This reminds me of the “techbro discovers very common x thing” meme. Going to a coffee shop (that is 75% solo remote workers) without your phone and pretending it’s some divine experience feels conceited. Do things you like, sometimes don’t check your phone.

Very well written title though.

jrmg 3 days ago | parent | next [-]

The ‘thesis statement’ at the top (It’s contradictory to sit alone in a café. It’s against the reason cafés exist.) is entirely incorrect - and it’s odd that the author thought like that. But I don’t think they deserve to be denigrated.

The post is eloquently written, and if it inspires people to take a little time for themselves the world will be a little of a better place because of it. And posting it makes the author a little vulnerable; I’d much rather people write posts like this than self-censor because they’d be exposed to ridicule.

raddan 3 days ago | parent [-]

I agree. This was evidently a new experience for this person, and maybe the reason is that they’re… a new adult? Anyway, even old people have new experiences all the time. At least this person is putting themselves out there and doing something active. Good for them.

Except the dog thing. PLEASE do not bring your dog into a cafe. Somehow people like me are in the minority though so I will stop here.

tomca32 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Exactly how I feel about this. As a European living in the US this reads “American discovers sitting down with a cup of coffee instead of taking it outside”.

walthamstow 3 days ago | parent [-]

Instead of getting it through their car window, judging by these numbers

https://www.ft.com/content/db5bb7a8-f7f3-4953-9c8f-870073943...

mosesbp 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

In case you didn’t know, the title is just a straightforward edit of Kundera’s famous novel title.

soared 2 days ago | parent [-]

I did not, thanks :)

isoprophlex 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Too bad.

The writing style...

quickly loses it's luster.

After you make it past the title.

mrbukkake 3 days ago | parent [-]

It's the linkedin writing style, the idea is to make a bland anecdote with some vapid "insights" sound interesting by making it all enthusiastic and breathless like a TED talk

tonyedgecombe 3 days ago | parent [-]

It's called broetry.

lorenzo1860 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Haha this made me laugth... Although I really liked the post, I agree!

CrossVR 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

techbro discovers sitting down for a cup of coffee doesn't need to be a networking event.

phantasmish 3 days ago | parent [-]

… but does turn it into “content”.

CrossVR 3 days ago | parent [-]

Small steps, small steps

mrbukkake 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

manic pixie dreamnerd syndrome. sad! many such cases

johnfn 3 days ago | parent | prev [-]

It seems a bit absurd to call someone a tech bro for experiencing something for the first time and writing about it - especially something as benign as going to a cafe.

soared 2 days ago | parent [-]

It was very reminiscent of a LinkedIn screenshot I saw of a someone saying “I’ve been thinking a lot about irl podcasts. Just sitting down with a group of peers, no recording, etc” and someone replying “techbro rediscovers hanging out with friends”