it is time to ditch flutter/react native for these type of technology (kmp,swiftdroid) ????

They target different things. kmp/swiftdroid let you share business logic, but not really the UI. Although this is SwiftUI-like, it's not actually swiftui and doesn't behave as such. So you'd be doing platform-specific front ends, which isn't necessarily a bad thing but it's different from the promise of Flutter/React Native which is the same UI everywhere