| ▲ | eduction 9 hours ago | ||||||||||||||||||||||
I admire Bryan and Oxide but outing your former coworker’s private conversation with you because they said something you didn’t like on email is, to use Bryan’s terminology, “gross.” How many former Sun folks are in senior engineering management at Broadcom? Might as well have just posted the person’s name. | |||||||||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | bcantrill 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||
The name is beside the point -- and their character outs them anyway. To be clear, this was a conversation I didn't initiate (they came into my DMs, going off half-cocked about several technical aspects of Oxide that they did not understand), and they made no effort to hide their disposition. We probably disagree on this, but I don't believe that there's a basis for an assumption of privacy here (I'm not your priest, rabbi, lawyer, spouse, etc.) -- and anyone who knows me would know that I'm not the person to be confessing these kinds of sins to anyway. | |||||||||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | neilv 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||
That's a tricky one for public writing discretion. The Sun and Broadcom connections add to the point. Something a person with that background said was surprising. And the exact wording in one of the quotes was relevant. I don't know whether I would've identified the person. As a principal-ish engineer and early startup person, who interacts with teams and all up and down the org charts of companies, it's important that people trust me. One part of that is to show discretion when entrusted with information. It's nuanced. I have some WTF quotes and situations from recent interviews that I've decided not to share. The most recent one I did share was relatively mild, and I decided to paraphrase what the out-of-line person said, and be reasonably confident the person couldn't be identified. The incubator mentioned is harder to obscure, and is relevant to some people, so I tried to find a reasonable balance, but they should know who they are and be able to take some criticism, so I didn't worry much about it. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46415495 | |||||||||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | thundergolfer 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||
I dunno, a few hundred folks? | |||||||||||||||||||||||
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