If everywhere you go stinks, look under your own shoe.

If you move somewhere, and find the same circles why are you surprised that you’re still not happy?

> also, no women

Social groups aren’t just a place for unhappy people to meet a partner. I’d look inwards first.

Ouch! I don’t think that’s fair.

It sounds like his professional life or personal interests naturally being him in contact with a social circle that isn’t fulfilling socially. Doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with him.

I say, look outward! Intentionally get involved with other social circles.