I think there's merit to your criticisms of the way docker is used, but it also seems like it provides substantial benefits for application developers. They don't need to beg OS maintainers to update the package, and they don't need to maintain builds for different (OS, version) targets any more.

They can just say "here's the source code, here's a container where it works, the rest is the OS maintainer's job, and if Debian users running 10 year old software bug me I'm just gonna tell them to use the container"

Yeah I'm not against Docker in its entirety. I think it is good for development purposes to emulate multiple different environments and test things inside them, just not as a way to ship stuff.