You can try creating a profile as a woman. I did, five years ago, on a site that advertised itself as being dedicated to "affairs" between married people.

All I said was I was 20, was red haired, and open minded. Nothing more, and no photo.

Indeed, within a couple of minutes there were guys asking me if I liked to be whipped while handcuffed to a radiator, and offered to send me dick picks if I sent naked photos first. One of them added later "maybe I'm too direct for you, is that why you're silent?"

I didn't respond to any message, but the offers kept coming. It's insane.