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AlecSchueler 2 hours ago

They didn't suggest men couldn't understand, they actually offered a way to help foster understanding by creating the false profile. The ones who won't understand are those who make no effort to understand, and that's quite reasonable to say.

A woman's online safety relative to other spaces also misses the point about their online spaces being less safe than those of men; the suggestion wasn't that online spaces are the absolute most dangerous spaces for them.

That said I would raise the point of how easy it is to dehumanise people online and how easy it is to quickly gather various data like work addresses etc.

stinkbeetle an hour ago | parent [-]

No you're wrong, poster I replied to explicitly asserted that "men really don't understand" it. And I that doesn't miss the point, you claim it does but you aren't actually addressing any of what I wrote.

TuringTest 28 minutes ago | parent [-]

You're missing the point, and that's because you changed the goalposts from "men really don't understand" to "can't possibly understand"; a difference that in this context is significant.

The OP was saying that men generally don't have the awareness of how women have it in the online world. The lack of understanding is because of not knowing about it, not because of a lack of capacity or empathy.

In fact the post suggest that doing an experiment to get such awareness would help in getting the understanding.