I often do this in meetings and have gotten into the habit of saying "I'm thinking". It's not much but it gives both of us time to think and explicitly makes it clear I don't expect the person to say something. I think that helps.

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fgonzag 7 hours ago | parent | next [-]

I just blurt out "processing" when they start looking at me weird. People tend to take it well.

	▲	underdeserver 4 hours ago \| parent \| next [-]
		I read this at first as "I just blurt out "processing" and people look at me weird", which made me smile.
	▲	refulgentis 6 hours ago \| parent \| prev [-]
		Fair enough, I do like parent’s a bit better, “blurting processing” feels like a too high default setting right after seeing “I’m thinking” :) - not that any of it matters anyways, communicating _something_ gets you there. Rest it just triaging around the edges what people will call you weird for, and if they are, they were going to anyway.

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oldestofsports 19 minutes ago | parent | prev [-]

”Thinking longer for a better answer”