I mean, thats one way to look at it.

But reading between the lines, having someone with a gambling habit isn't the best live in "maid" especially if they work full time as a bin man.

I would just suggest that looking to believe the worst in people will not make you stronger or more effective than others, it'll just make you lonely.

Yeah I try to see the best in people. But the internet is anonymous and my first thoughts revolved around why they would do this for so long.