Well really, the language _is_ the difficulty of much of hardware design, both Verilog and VHDL are languages that were designed for simulation of hardware, and not synthesis of hardware. Both languages have of similar-but-not-quite ways of writing things, like blocking/nonblocking assigns causing incorrect behavior that's incredibly difficult to spot on the waveform, not being exhaustive in assigns in always blocks causing latches, maybe-synthesizeable for loops, etc. Most of this comes from their paradigm of an event loop, handling all events and the events that those events trigger, etc, until all are done, and advancing time until the next event. They simulate how the internal state of a chip changes every clock cycle, but not to actually do the designing of said chip itself.

I'm tooting my own horn with this, as I'm building my own language for doing the actual designing. It's called SUS.

Simple things look pretty much like C:

  module add :
    int#(FROM:-8, TO: 8) a,
    int#(FROM: 2, TO: 20) b -> 
    int c {
    c = a+b
  }

It's a very young language, but me, a few of my colleagues, and some researchers in another university are already using it. Check it out => https://github.com/pc2/sus-compiler

VHDL was designed for specification. Verilog is the one with the warts from its simulator heritage.