| ▲ | onion2k 7 hours ago | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
That's really nice, but the point where the vision is should move too. You learn as you progress. What you enjoy changes. The entire industry moves. Being focused on the goal you defined 30 years ago is almost certainly wrong for most people. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | jvanderbot 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
After ~15 years, I've realized that no good things come to you without sustained focus / attentiveness, and gentle pressure in the direction of attention. What everyone here is saying is "be closed loop", vs the drunkards "open loop". Combined with a bit of progress every day, it's (so far, at least) magical what happens. Another bit to consider: It took a long time to realize that basically everyone wants basically everyone to succeed, as long as incentives align. It was very easy to imagine I was swimming upstream early in my career - especially my early mentors urging me to specialize to find success. My initial temptation was to "specialize" in hot/attractive topics in an effort to be the "indispensable X authority". But my PhD advisor urged me to "not swim in red water", where the incentives are inherently conflicting - everyone wants to be "the X person". Much better to find a team working on a good problem somewhat like the ones you want to solve and just push along with them. You can save yourself a lot of energy by slotting yourself into a system that aligns with your preferred direction of travel, even if only a little bit. The current carries you. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | reactordev 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
I can’t emphasize this enough. Every 5 years or so I reassess what my goals are and refocus my vision on where I want to apply my skills. Things change fast in our industry so being able to pivot to something nearby is paramount for maintaining a career in this field. Not everyone has the fortune to spend 15 years at a FAANG or other large corporation. Sometimes you have to build it. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | kamaal 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
>>Being focused on the goal you defined 30 years ago is almost certainly wrong for most people. I think there are certain things that are not likely to change, and must be aimed for. For starters, being healthy, proactively working towards a retirement nest egg, so that you don't end up homeless and starving in case things go south too fast. There are many such things I hold as things I would want several years from now. Good health, free time and enough money to not need a job to just put food on the table, and a roof above my head. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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