> I am having a lot of trouble following you. Something has upset you: what would make you feel better?

Don't talk to people like here, please. It's passive aggressive and unproductive. GP's comment was fine, if not a bit impassioned, regardless if you agree with it.

thanks for the correction, I do not want to be aggressive.

I see now I should have just asked: what do you want?

to prefix my response with an admission that I'm not sure what the problem is.