I don't know your priorities, but I will say this: beware the recency bias: don't overweight on a news story. Instead, take at least five minutes make a list of your concerns.

> I should probably start to work on self-hosting now that I can see I was incorrect to trust Apple...

Jumping to that conclusion might be worse. Don't think of trust as a binary bit. Better to ask:

  1. To what degree can I trust Party to do Thing?
     - what is Party's track record?
     - what are Party's incentives?
     - what is the probabilistic distribution of outcomes?
  2. What is my best alternative to #1?
     - ... track record?
     - ... incentives?
     - ... distribution of outcomes?
  3. Pick the least worst for you