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epolanski 2 days ago

Interesting example with some questionable couple dynamics.

seizethecheese a day ago | parent [-]

Looks really healthy to me. It’s unhealthy when a partner can’t recognize that they actually were at fault and try to change, but instead needs every fight to resolve with “we were both wrong”.

btilly a day ago | parent [-]

To add color, this is an interaction that started with one person being stressed. Expecting ideal behavior out of a stressed person is unreasonable.

IAmBroom 16 hours ago | parent [-]

You sound like a terrific Significant Other: willing to look inwards to see how you contributed to the problems the couple is having, and working to improve in the future.

btilly 16 hours ago | parent [-]

Thank you. That's what I'm trying to be.

However I'm also a work in progress. I spent a long time being significantly less than terrific...