No you use tensor parallelism in both cases.

The way it typically works in an attention block is: smaller portions of the Q, K and V linear layers are assigned to each node and are processed independently. Attention, rope norm etc is run on the node-specific output of that. Then, when the output linear layer is applied an "all reduce" is computed which combines the output of all the nodes.

EDIT: just realized it wasn't clear -- this means that each node ends up holding a portion of the KV cache specific to its KV tensor shards. This can change based on the specific style of attention (e.g., in GQA where there are fewer KV heads than ranks you end up having to do some replication etc)

I usually call it "head parallelism" (which is a type of tensor parallelism, but paralllelize for small clusters, and specific to attention). That is what you described: sharding input tensor by number of heads and send to respective Q, K, V shard. They can do Q / K / V projection, rope, qk norm whatever and attention all inside that particular shard. The out projection will be done in that shard too but then need to all reduce sum amongst shard to get the final out projection broadcasted to every participating shard, then carry on to do whatever else themselves.

I am asking, however, is whether that will speed up decoding as linearly as it would for prefilling.