> And we all turned out fine I might add.

Absolutely not. You might personally feel like (or want to tell yourself that) porn didn't negatively affect you. I can tell you with certainty that porn negatively affected my social and sexual development. (I was literally afraid to physically open my mouth around girls when I was 10 years old because of porn.)

> Of course not counting the toxic masculine far right but that doesn't have anything to do with porn but everything with hate.

There are plenty of pipelines between porn and "toxic masculinity."