> It’s not impossible, just impractical with a high likelihood of being wrong due to bad or insufficient data or interpretation.

If it's impractical to know, why is using personal preference and intuition a "huge red flag"?

That's the core idea being disagreed with, not the idea that you could theoretically with enough resources get an objective answer.

It might be because depending on one's sensitivity to various factors and how much work they put into discovering the domain, things might feel okay, and yet be the completely wrong choice.

For example, how to many people MongoDB felt like a really good option during its hype cycle before it became clear how there are workloads out there, where you will get burnt badly if you pick anything other than a traditional RDBMS with ACID.

Similarly, there are cases where people cargo cult really hard or just become opinionated over time - someone who has worked primarily in Java for 20 years will probably pick that for a wide variety of projects, though this preference might make them blind to the fact that others aren't as good with it on a given team and that they might not iterate fast enough to ship, when compared with, let's say Django or Ruby on Rails or even Laravel.

Feelings can be dangerous, informed choices will generally be better, though I guess with the way we use language, those two kinda blend together. If those feelings are based on good enough data and experience, then those might be pretty valuable too - someone who has been writing code for 20 years will probably be more accurate than someone who has been programming for 2 years, yet if someone has 10x2 years of experience (doing the same thing, not learning, not exploring), then it's a toss up, worse yet if people think that still means seniority.

I kinda get why someone might react to the word "feels" in seemingly deterministic development context, but my own reaction wouldn't be so strong and with certain people, I'd trust their feelings. At the same time I've seen plenty of people who write what they believe to be a good code that is a bit of a mess in my eyes.