I wish so too, same for all the self-hosters using tailscale...

Tailscale connections don't get terminated by a middle box, it's just end-to-end encrypted Wireguard under the hood. Cloud-hosted control panel is a risk because they could push malicious configuration changes to your clients (ACLs and new nodes if you're not using the lock feature), but they can't do it without leaving a trace like Cloudflare can.

Tailscale cannot passively observe traffic.

They could inject malicious keys into your config but would be hard to mask the evidence of that.

These are not the same thing, the parent is confused..