| ▲ | d-lisp 2 hours ago |
| Eye contact makes me very uncomfortable.” “I suck at small talk.” “I have rigid routines.” “I hyper-focus on my hobbies.” “I am always fidgeting.” “Social interaction exhausts me.” “I really bad at making friends.” “I don’t fit in; people find me weird.” I never considered it althought I'm ticking all the buttons (bad gear ? [0]) [0] https://youtube.com/@audiopilz?si=g6iGJK3ygnCWESWW |
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| ▲ | coldtea 2 hours ago | parent | next [-] |
| You could add "I'm a HN regular" as a diagnostic criterium. The HN crowd is surely over-represented in ASD, which makes sense for people enjoying debating nerdy topics and pedantry. And "I like Lisp" should be an automatic qualifier. |
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| ▲ | escanda an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | I am schizotypy and I very much love Common Lisp but not so much Racket haha | | |
| ▲ | d-lisp 42 minutes ago | parent [-] | | How do you feel about Scheme ? | | |
| ▲ | escanda 35 minutes ago | parent [-] | | lisp-1 (s) give me the chills: very much prefer doubled namespaces. Though these days I focus on systems security or threat analysis. I still fondly remember the days where I could launch Emacs with sbcl and write some Montecarlo simulations on Common Lisp with electric-parens haha Those were the days of stimulating learning | | |
| ▲ | d-lisp 21 minutes ago | parent [-] | | That's funny, I never found doubled namespaces that interesting; what are your opinions, why do you prefer them ? > electric parens I get you, I was amazed by the litterature around lisps (I always found the beginning of SICP (the wizard-programmer analogy) quite inspiring and fun) | | |
| ▲ | escanda 8 minutes ago | parent [-] | | It was kind of a joke intent but it gives out to better naming position although unambiguous symbols to specify a symbol; such as #' for function names. Plus now that I remember the common Lisp ANSI specification is just awesome, free and locally installable and browsable from Emacs at symbols from ages. Common Lisp images were myriads ahead in an intospectable sense, like Smalltalk. Objects and primitives can use the built-in debugger to display their inwards. The environment is just plain astonishing, moreover ten years ago - when I started - and Emacs is free as in speech and compilable from scratch, plus org-mode is awesome as well. Nowadays I feel sorry of Python introspection capabilities although hinted typing improved it so much. Not to mention Common Lisp tight generated assembly and it's garbage collector which was ahead of its own: first with Boehm and then with parallel ones. SICP was nice although nicest was the one about gravitational physics, or brownian motions, also in Scheme. Good times. |
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| ▲ | d-lisp an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | I honestly prefer C/assembly over lisp, which should be even more so. |
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| ▲ | vertnerd an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I used to be an educator, and many of my students had an autism diagnosis. I would get to know them and often eventually decide that they were "just like" me, except that whatever their problems were, I had it worse. So then I would look at these autism checklists and say, "yep, that's me," but when I actually looked at the strict diagnostic criteria, it wasn't that clear. Looking at this article, I get it. There are other, more focused criteria that can be more appropriate. But those diagnoses don't trigger the special services, so they don't get used often enough. What is my takeaway? People often don't conform to a model of average human behavior. Being unusual isn't necessarily a grave character flaw (which is what my mother had me believe) but merely an expression of the great variety of human intellect and behavior. It gives me license, without official diagnosis, to enjoy being who I am without shame or embarrassment. |
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| ▲ | cardanome an hour ago | parent | next [-] | | The diagnosis criteria are written by and for neurotypical people. Autistic people are likely to dismiss them as not fitting because they are reading them too literally. Also we tend to underestimate our own symptoms. As a ADHD person it took me a long time to understand that many of my struggles were not things everyone experienced. I still find it hard to really grasp that most people don't suffer from executive dysfunction and can just do things, even things they are not interested in. Honestly if you relate to autistic people chances are high that you have some form of neurodivergence. It might be worth trying to get a diagnosis, even just to be sure. | |
| ▲ | d-lisp an hour ago | parent | prev [-] | | agreed. I studied philosophy during a large extent of my life, and I am a convinced Witgensteinian. |
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| ▲ | spectralfriend 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-] |
| As a diagnosed autistic, I think I would ask -- does ticking these boxes make you feel like, "oh shit, this could explain some difficulties..." or just go, "huh, interesting?" I tend to invite people to think about how their lives have been impacted. For example, I experience anxiety at late invites to events I'd enjoy. I panic and decline them because I'm experiencing a highly irrational anger fear response to changing schedules. This causes me to miss events I would otherwise enjoy, and then I feel guilty. Having to process all those feelings takes a lot of energy, and it's really draining. That has significant impact on my life. Compare to a friend of mine who just prefers quiet evenings. She declines things all the time but never gives it a second thought. Disability vs preference. It's ok if it's either! Neither of us are wrong, we just experience different impacts in our lives. |
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| ▲ | d-lisp an hour ago | parent [-] | | Well, I exiled myself to the countryside because I want to be able to choose how much exposure to society I want. I guess I gamed the problems you are talking about, but as a side effect I am sometimes probably weirder than before (which is a non problem when you live where I live). I would probably live a sad and boring life if I were to live in any small/medium/big city. |
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