| ▲ | aschla 16 hours ago |
| I'm not particularly old yet, in my mid-thirties, but I reacted like someone much older when I learned kids are allowed to carry around their phones all day at school. Back in my day (when we walked to school uphill both ways), we weren't allowed to carry around basic flip phones. They had to be in our locker and only used before or after school. When and why did it become acceptable for much more distracting and stimulating devices to be allowed in class? |
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| ▲ | japhyr 11 hours ago | parent | next [-] |
| I was a classroom teacher from 1994-2019, so I watched the transition through the advent of phones until just before Covid. It's not as simple as it seems, for a few reasons. One, there's the very real pressure from parents to be able to contact their kids when they need to. In the US, regular school shootings have made this a complicated issue to navigate. Also, it requires much more consistency from school staff than most people realize. If it's top down and not supported by just about everyone, then many teachers and staff find themselves in endless battles. It takes more consistency and clarity of vision, and consistent enforcement than many schools are capable of. Last, the devices students carry with them are often more capable and reliable than school based technology. So when students need to look something up, it's easy for them to just pull out their device. Super-addictive devices in a society that's prioritizing many of the wrong things is a hard thing to manage. How many of you would give up your tech salaries to make $40-60k to take on these issues? |
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| ▲ | huhkerrf 3 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | There have been 70 school shootings (not mass shootings) this year, including accidental discharges. Required caveat that any school gun deaths are too much, etc. etc. But... this means that a student is significantly more likely to get injured or killed riding in car with their friends, but somehow that was allowed before phones. The school shootings excuse is not a reason to let kids have phones in schools. | |
| ▲ | Mistletoe 9 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | If they need to contact their kids they can call the school to talk to them in the very rare case that is actually necessary. It was quite nice and refreshing to have the umbilical cut to your parents while you were at school in the past. You had to learn how to be on your own. If there is a school shooting, what is texting their kid going to do? | | |
| ▲ | RandomBacon 6 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | > what is texting their kid going to do? Those parents don't realize it's going to get their kid shot when the kid is hiding and the gunman hears the ding or buzz of the notification. | | |
| ▲ | rixed 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | Match what's been reported by some Bataclan attack survivors: not only you had to play dead, but your phone had to play dead too. |
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| ▲ | makeitdouble 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | I feel too few people apply the same logic to themselves. For instance would you put your phone in a locker for the time you're on the clock for work ? Some professions require that, it's not an unreasonable proposition in itself. But how many actually can/would do it ? Some people see it as a guilt thing and just assume they're succumbing to some tentation. Another way to look at it is the generic message being just wrong, we're doing fine _enough_ as we do now, and pushing moral principals nobody actually cares about on kids isn't as smart as people want to make it. | | |
| ▲ | kelnos 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | I don't think those situations are comparable. Adults in the workplace are expected to get their work done, meet deadlines, act professionally, etc. If an employee doesn't do that, there are consequences, and we judge that adults can decide for themselves if they want to bear those consequences. We put extra rules in place for kids because their brains aren't fully developed and they very often incorrectly assess whether or not the consequences of an action are worth it. (And yes, adults are bad at that assessment sometimes, too, but we as a society have decided that at some point we need to take off the training wheels.) |
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| ▲ | jdalgetty 16 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| When parents themselves also became addicted and decided it was easier to give their kids phones than to parent them. |
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| ▲ | kakacik 34 minutes ago | parent [-] | | This is bulk of the problem. Don't expect kids to do better when their role models screw up so badly. Sure some will come on top of their own parents but thats not the norm rather just an exception. There is always the peer pressure excuse but thats not good enough. At the end who buys and setups and keeps paying for that phone? |
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| ▲ | AAAAaccountAAAA 16 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I think it is precisely because they are more distracting. When the most addictive thing in phones was the snake game, kids did not bother to insist in using their phones all the time. Now, when you try to tell a pupil to put the phone away, it often results in a huge arguments, so eventually teachers gave up. |
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| ▲ | johnnyanmac 12 hours ago | parent [-] | | no seizing of phones, no detention/disciplary action? It's not even about the phones at that point, it's just general disrespect to staff. What changed overtime? Or maybe it was always this way and I simply had a better environment? | | |
| ▲ | kelnos 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | As usual, it's the parents, as a result of decades of creeping helicopter parenting. Without district-wide policy, if a teacher were to confiscate a phone, that would lead to a parent calling the school administrator to complain. The administrators, absent a policy, are spineless, and assure the parent it won't happen again. The teacher then gets chastised by the administration. So then the teachers just stop caring: doing something about the phone distraction will only cause them grief. If the kids don't learn, whatever, not their problem, really, as long as the same thing is happening in every other classroom, which it is. A school-wide policy, or, even better, a district-wide policy gives the teachers and school administrators cover: they can make sympathetic noises when the parents complain, but tell the parents there's nothing they can do, because the policy comes from above their pay grade. |
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| ▲ | phantasmish 13 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| We weren't allowed to have any of several different individual devices the functions of which are present in a smartphone. Banning that stuff was more-or-less uncontroversial. Obviously kids in an ordinary classroom shouldn't have instant cameras, and video recorders, and audio recorders, and Walkmen, and radios, and game boys, and TVs, and flashlights, and... Now we have devices that are all of those things in one and parents will fight you if you try to keep kids from having or using them. Go figure. What's baffling is why so many more people started thinking all those devices were OK when they're combined into one device. Like, not much of this is novel, we could have had devices that did most of the relevant things a smartphone does, in class. But we didn't because of fucking course they weren't permitted. |
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| ▲ | johnnyanmac 12 hours ago | parent [-] | | I really don't understand why the parents would fight for them. My theoretical kid is there to learn, enforce any reasonable rules that can disrupt that goal. It's also in general a good way to form work habits for future aspects. Be it college, a job, military, etc. You can't fight over having your phone out to your boss. You can do it to your professor, but that's your $20k/yr tuition talking. | | |
| ▲ | knollimar 11 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | >You can't fight over having your phone out to your boss Give me a company phone or you don't get this rule. I'm not using my phone for work if I can't have it out during work. I use it 99% for work related things during work, though, with the 1% being happy birthday texts or something similar | | |
| ▲ | dhussoe 11 hours ago | parent [-] | | This is kind of a weird example to begin with on a forum mostly populated by software engineers, because I'd find it very weird if a manager ever objected to someone using their personal phone at a SWE or similar office job, but I'd guess that the sets of jobs where a "boss" would object to someone using their phone during work (but still getting their work done) and those that would potentially have a company phone are mostly disjoint... a complete prohibition on using your phone seems like entry-level retail job type rules. excepting corner-case stuff like some very high security facility where you wouldn't even be allowed to bring any outside electronics in. | | |
| ▲ | johnnyanmac 8 hours ago | parent [-] | | Software is a bit isolated from this (there's computers for "research" regardless, after all). But phone policies can be very strict in most other sectors of work. Seen as a dostraction at worst and unprofessional at best. A teacher wouldn't be able to just get away with having their phone out during class unless there's an emergency. |
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| ▲ | SchemaLoad 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | | Some parents message their kids all through the day, they treat it as some kind of social media. Making kids focus on school instead of immediately replying to text messages upsets the parents. | | |
| ▲ | phantasmish 9 hours ago | parent [-] | | I know a bunch of teachers. This is true. Some (like, one or two per hundred students or so) may occasionally call their kid when they know they’re in class. Not because there’s a family emergency or something (and c’mon, you can still call the office for that) but just to shoot the shit. Talk about a WTF. |
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| ▲ | apical_dendrite 10 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Parents really like the convenience and the feeling of safety they get when their kid has a phone. If they have to change school pickup plans they'd much rather text their kid than call and leave a message with the school office and then hope that the office gets the message to their kid. We're so used to being able to get in touch with our family members at all times that it feels really unnerving when your kid isn't immediately accessible. And the parents who complain think that their kids aren't the ones who are addicted to their phones. That's why these bans needed to happen at the state or school district level - expecting individual teachers to have to spend their time arguing with parents and kids over cell phones was just not realistic. |
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| ▲ | kelnos 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I'm a little older than you (mid forties), and back in my day (when we walked to school uphill, both ways, in the snow, with no shoes), they banned pagers. (And the penalties could be pretty bad, since "only drug dealers have pagers".) (The thing that annoyed teachers was when we played games on our graphing calculators, which they of course couldn't ban, since the school required them in the first place!) |
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| ▲ | ikamm 14 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| It became "acceptable" because the teachers and admin were already on their phones constantly. I went to grade school from 2005-2017, when iPhones came around the adults got them years before kids did, I had numerous teachers that would sit on their phones half the class. |
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| ▲ | johnnyanmac 12 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Yeah I'm not that far out of high school but my school in the late 00's had a library policy on phones. You can keep them in your pocket, but don't bring them out during school. Otherwise they get taken for the class time, and it escalates from there. This included recess and pretty much extended to all non-calculator electronic devices, but it was generally more lax when you weren't disrupting someone. I couldn't imagine brazenly having my phone out while a teacher was talking unless it was an emergency. |
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| ▲ | stonemetal12 14 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Never. There has never been a time when it was OK to use a phone in class. What happened is A) Some kids do take their phone out and play with them and either get caught or not B) Something happens and kids record it aka school fight videos. C) giant moral panic that has very little basis in reality. |
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| ▲ | johnnyanmac 12 hours ago | parent [-] | | I think it's less about what's okay and more about enforcement. It does seem like post pandemic schools lost all their teeth. |
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| ▲ | bluedino 11 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| In the 90's only drug dealers had pagers and cell phones, at least in the eyes of the board of education. If you were caught with one you'd be expelled. |
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| ▲ | wiredpancake 7 hours ago | parent | prev [-] |
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