I'm finding a good balance by only relying on LLMs for the stuff that used to make me stuck because it was just boring to do, the process of reading code, reasoning about it, and designing in my head a solution is still absolutely needed; after that it's quite easy to start hammering out a solution, sometimes I'd get a bit stuck if I noticed it would need some major changes across multiple places, I can let a LLM do that for me and get back on track.

What I can't stand even though I tried quite a bit is talking to the damn clanker at length to describe step-wise what I believe needs to be done, and keep waiting, reviewing, telling it what's wrong, waiting, reviewing, I don't think I'm at a stage where I have the mental capacity to be running dozens of clankers at once doing all their changes on their own, and just reviewing later. It's absolutely exhausting and joyless, I've tried, and at the moment it's not for me.