I agree. I got really tired of hearing tables are for tabular data! For 20+ years. My reply was always, Who cares if it accomplished the layout you want. If the meaning of a word is what got people so hung up... why not go and make a new css term that did what tables did but improve on it. Now 20+ years later, that is pretty much what they did.

Screen readers do care. A lot. Grid and subgrid solve the problem without breaking DOM and semantics, which is a huge concern in accessibility.