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whyenot 6 hours ago

I suspect that helicopter parenting is a much larger contributor than physical isolation. We have had sparse suburbs in the US since at least the 1950s, and generations of kids grew up in that environment and did just fine.

nitwit005 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

It's hard to tell. You have to wait a generation or two to see the long term effects, as people will still have their earlier social habits.

It feels as though people slowly learned that they could get away with not introducing themselves to their neighbors, invite them over for dinner, and other activities that were once assumed.

pixl97 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

1950s was the baby boom so is not a great example. Children per adult has been falling ever since and suburban areas growing.

whyenot 5 hours ago | parent [-]

I wrote starting in the 1950s. It was certainly true for other generations like gen X (me) and also for older millennials.

bongodongobob 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

It's definitely this. I live in one of the safest cities in the country, in the Midwest. The other day on some local Facebook group, I saw a mom trying to find someone to pick up her kids from middle school and elementary school every day. It was a 10 and 5 minute walk respectively that EVERYONE in that neighborhood took 30 years ago. No busy streets, nothing. Sidewalks and everything. Absolutely insane.

Libidinalecon an hour ago | parent [-]

I also live in an incredibly safe area and had a friend from outside the US say it is like a horror movie after walking around a few times on a beautiful summer night when they visited.

Perfect summer night and there is not a person to be seen. They felt like they were walking around in some kind of zombie horror movie that all the people had vanished.