Every person is different. Some people don't need a stable relation, some people *can't have* a stable relation, some people thrive with it.

Every relation is different. A successful relation is built when both side are compatible.

What does compatible mean, though? Some relations are swingers. Some relations follow strict religious rules. Some people need taking a beating, and I don't mean an erotic one. In None of this cases I am meaning they are codependent, and then there are successful codependent relations.

The only constant I have seen is that every successful relation has discussions, fights, momments when they considered separating. And there is compromise, in every case.

I am sorry I don't have any specific advice. Good luck