| ▲ | Aboutplants a day ago | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
“And more importantly, we can provide a better environment for them to mature socially.” Take it from someone who was homeschooled from pre-k through high school, you will absolutely not provide a better social environment. I was so unprepared to handle the social dynamics in casual, educational or professional that it took years and years of active work to put myself in a position where it wasn’t an absolute detriment to my success. I have no doubt you can educate your children well, it’s every other aspect of humanity that is typically missed out on and can lead to unintended consequences. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | QuercusMax 8 hours ago | parent | next [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
I had the opposite experience. I was home schooled from 2nd grade through high school, but I didn't just spend all my time alone with parents. My family was part of a home-school co-op, I played in the local youth symphony, and I had a job working at the local university when I was 16 and taking college classes there. I also have a large extended family. I didn't really have much trouble adjusting to living on campus at college, and I've never had issues with interpersonal stuff at work or school. Your anecdote is not universal; neither is mine. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | AlchemistCamp 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Of my closest friends when I was in high school, the one with the best social skills had been home schooling since I met him when he was 10. However, he did participate in extracurricular activities at the local public school, like a computer club in middle school and then theater in high school. The only area he was really lagging at age 18 was in math, but that reversed a few years later and now he has a STEM PhD and has been teaching at a large state school for the past decade and a half. I'd say a lot depends on both the quality of the schooling and maybe even more depends on the person's natural inclinations. He wouldn't have had time for all the reading he did as a teenager if he weren't home schooled, but he'd probably still have been in theater and still have been very open and curious life-long learner as an adult. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | Brendinooo 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
I dunno. I think I could spin a narrative where public middle school dynamics (that is, bullied quite a bit) created issues for me that hampered my ability to succeed in social settings. I don't really think that way in general, but I guess I'd just want to point out that the spectrum isn't "good socialization in public school" to "bad/no socialization in homeschooling". | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | jmathai a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Sounds like you had a hard time transitioning. Sorry for that. I don't believe it's a magic pill by any means. But I've known many recently home schooled kids and they seem a lot more mature than their public school peers. So I think we have a decent shot at having similar results. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | Freedom2 a day ago | parent | prev [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
One could say this is where the free market of schooling comes into play. Does it make more economic sense for businesses to choose those with social skills learnt from home schooling, or ones who have not been home schooled? Definitely curious to see where this goes. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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