Debezium published this doc on Exactly-once delivery with their most recent 3.3.0 version. They dont support it natively, but say it can be achieved via Kafka Connect

https://debezium.io/documentation/reference/stable/configura...

You could probably achieve something similar with the NATS Jetstream sink as well, which has similar capabilities - though I think it doesnt have quite the same guarantees.

I switched to using Debezium a few months ago, after a Golang alternative to Debezium + Kafka Connect - ConduitIO - went defunct. I should have been using Debezium all along, as it is clearly the most mature, most stable option in the space, with the best prospects for long-term survival. Highly recommended, even if it is JVM (though they're currently doing some interesting stuff with Quarkus and GraalVM that might lead to a jvm-free binary at some point)