This is only the case when the language does not distinguish between methods that can be overridden versus those that cannot. C++ gives you the keyword "virtual" to put in front of each member function that you want to opt into this behavior, and in my experience people tend to give it some thought on which should be virtual. So I rarely have this issue in C++. But in languages like Python where everything is overridable, the issue you mention is very real.

Good point. In Java and many other languages you can opt out instead... which might make a big difference. Is it more of a "cultural" thing?... again, many frameworks encourage it by design, and so do many courses/tutorials... so those devs would be happy to put "virtual" everywhere in C++