> I find it pretty gross and immoral to dictate change without satisfying the preconditions that allow it to occur legally for everyone involved.

Your claims include that this is effectively impossible and that changes of this type take decades to roll out in the US.

If we take your claims as accurate then the only way to ever make a change like this is to “break some eggs”. The alternative would be for us collectively to stop pretending that effective governance is a unreasonable expectation.