You are not the one who lost their loved ones over this, we are way past that point of assumed innocence.

There's a reason for why I am doing what I am doing.

If it has truly escalated to that point, then I certainly cannot speak further. You are right in that I have been fortunate enough not to lose anyone over such a matter. I do feel sorry for your loss, however, because no one deserves to lose a loved one like that.