| ▲ | squigz 10 hours ago |
| Generally, once you leave high school, you have a lot more choice in when/where you are forced to interact with bullies. |
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| ▲ | ryandrake 9 hours ago | parent | next [-] |
| The exception being work, where a lot of people seem like they never left high school. Everywhere I've worked had the social totem pole, the cliques, the politics, the in-crowd and out-crowds. One place I worked was almost exactly like the movie Mean Girls. Lots of people just don't grow out of it. |
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| ▲ | lmm 9 hours ago | parent [-] | | Worst case you can switch jobs. It's not easy, but it's a lot easier than switching schools. |
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| ▲ | LtWorf 10 hours ago | parent | prev [-] |
| Also, bullying in school has no consequences, but outside it might have some. |
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| ▲ | squigz 10 hours ago | parent [-] | | Bullying in school absolutely has consequences, and they're mostly going to be much farther-reaching than those suffered as an adult - getting messed up psychologically is more impactful as a kid, not to mention any physical toll it takes, or the impact of it on one's education. | | |
| ▲ | ironSkillet 9 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I think the user means that bullies in school face little consequences, but a bully at work may get called by HR and potentially disciplined. | | |
| ▲ | squigz 8 hours ago | parent [-] | | Oh fair enough. My apologies Mr Worf. I don't fully agree - plenty of shitty behavior gets ignored (or even encouraged) even in a workplace - but there's definitely some truth here. |
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| ▲ | LtWorf 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | No consequence for the bully I mean. |
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