async python has problems, but "anyio exists" is not one of them that can be blamed on python, simply dont use weird third party libraries trying to second guess the asyncio architecture

edit: ironically I'm the author of a weird third party library trying to second guess the asyncio architecture but mine is good https://awaitlet.sqlalchemy.org/en/latest/ (but I'll likely be retiring it in the coming year due to lack of interest)

I don't recall the exact situation but am I suppose to just know which async library each dependency is using? It reminds of of the early days of promises in JavaScript.