> Another big issue imo to me feels like ssh, X servers ssh forwarding/vnc just works, Yet I haven't really found ways to do things like VNC on wayland on a server or something as easy (or even possible?) on wayland as compared to x servers,

waypipe just works too. That replaces any reason to do SSH forwarding.

Also some desktop like Gnome (maybe KDE has similar feature?) offer remote desktop. In Gnome's case it is using RDP protocol instead of VNC.