my mom is in a nursing home, ended up there after dad fell and got hurt, and her memory was shot, and the rest of her cognitive performance was going to hell, and through whatever combination of factors, PLUS getting the shingles vacine she has made a very very significant recovery, my dad got the same vacine, and has also had a significant cognitive improvement, which has translated into physical improvements, as he was stuck in bed after breaking his 11'th vertebra after the fall, prognosis was "death" and he is able to struggle to his feet and is getting stronger, he's 97, mom's 82, were both hospitalised during covid. point bieng: if they can bounce back, whats your fucking excuse?

get.off.your.fucking.ass.

time.to.talk.to.a.therapist about the stress in your world and the scary reality of losing those you love, not ragepost in response to a question