i know there is no perfect choice, every thing has pros and cons, but come on guys there is a tech stack that you used at least once and you didn't find the same joy in other stack like DX,speed, performance...

Django, rails or laravel. Big 3? Seem to make it easy

In almost every case where it makes any difference, you need to know what you're building before you choose your stack

Otherwise this is just elbows and opinions.

The one you know /s

I love Rails and usually just stick with that since it’s fast to build out features. Laravel would be another in the same vein.