Because the purpose of Tinder, Hinge, etc. is to slowly destroy the social fabric of society to a point where people are perfectly malleable. More, more, more instant gratification. Less, less, less integrity.

We live in an age where the commercialization/cheapening of sex is celebrated by society but the natural result of that commercialization/cheapening isn't wanted.

You can't have it both ways.

Our anthropology is confused and it shows.

No app countibuted to destruction of social fabric more than Instagram.

the purpose is to make money. What you've described might be a side effect of that.

Facebook, Twitter, Bluesky, et. al. sure are showing them up at the game though.