I don't disagree but when my father passed, she took out some equity to pay his medical bills as well when she inherited the house. Life has a way of getting in the way.

Before the money is up... Move to thailand / malaysia / vietnam / mexico ? Do research online ?

Not sure where you / other siblings are based but find a place w good and cheap flight connections.

Changing sucks. Being forced to change even worse so maybe talk about options

(Or even a cheaper place in the usa)

Good luck