The 3090 are a sweet spot for training. It’s the first generation with seriously fast VRAM. And it’s the last generation before Nvidia blocked NVlink. If you need to copy parameters between GPUs during training, the 3090 can be up to 70% faster than 4090 or 5090. Because the latter two are limited by PCI express bandwidth.

To be fair though, the 4090 and 5090 are much easier capable of saturating PCI express than the 3090 is, even at 4 lanes per card the 3090 rarely manages to saturate the links, it still handsomely pays off to split down to 4 lanes and add more cards.

I used:

https://c-payne.com/

Very high quality and manageable prices.